My life's work is getting you out of your head and back in your body so you can enjoy sex, confidently connect to your sexuality, and relish melted marshmallow intimacy in your relationship again.
Because here's the thing - you haven't been together too long to feel those butterflies again. And you're neither too young, too old, too busy, or too tired to change your sex life and relationship.
Below you'll find find a selection of client testimonials all about what results I help my clients get - and how they experience working with me in various capacities.
"I have gotten better at initiating sex, maintaining my erection a bit longer and having a good sexual experience, with my wife having two to three orgasms before I have my orgasm, the frequency is about once a week. I have gotten a bit better at talking with my wife and not avoiding painful conversations (I'm an Avoider), and I have gotten better at not fighting back/criticizing/arguing with my wife."
- “Angela”, 27
"I've got a better grasp on my own and my partner's desires and sexuality now. There's way less stress and pressure around sex, and we're communicating about it so much better. Overall, I just feel happier and more at ease. This program has also allowed my partner to understand me better and why I've been struggling with intimacy for so long. It's definitely brought us closer together."
- “Archie", 65
"There's way less stress and pressure around sex. I just feel happier and more at ease"
"Gotten better at initiating sex, maintaining my erection a bit longer and having a good sexual experience"
"We have better communication about sex.
My partner is already approaching me differently about sex in a way that I’m receptive to"
- “Nathan”, 44
"Nobody will ever regret joining Re:Desire, no matter what, you will get so much out of the course. I should have done this course years ago, if knew what I know now."
- “Morgan", 35
"Nobody will ever regret joining Re:Desire"
"My partner is already approaching me differently about sex"
"Before I experienced a lot of sexual anxiety, and my constant rejection of my partner and shutting down physically and emotionally when she tried to initiate was by far the biggest issue in our marriage. Our awareness of our issues, the reasons underpinning them, the years of emotional hardwiring that contributes to both our behaviors, has improved massively. Alongside that, we have more empathy and understanding for each other now, and are both far less likely to get upset when sex or intimacy doesn’t work out how we had hoped.
We also have action and maintenance plans to help us going forward, so a roadmap for the future. In between, we have found ways to make sex fun and enjoyable again (when it does actually happen), and there is much less tension in our marriage overall now.
- “Madeline”, 27
"The Re:Desire program has been a very helpful resource in my sexual journey. It equips you with the tools you'll need throughout your life to maintain a healthy and happy sex life with yourself or with others! I would highly recommend this to someone as a quality investment in themselves. Thanks for what you do :)"
- “Ryan", 36
"I would highly recommend this to someone as a quality investment in themselves"
"We have found ways to make sex fun and enjoyable again and there is much less tension in our marriage overall now"
"I felt" “broken” because he wanted intimacy (sex to him), and I wanted intimacy without the sex part. We had tried marriage counseling a couple times, but were never able to come to a resolution. Your positivity and encouragement have been a blessing, and we are very grateful.
The exercises and your voice notes brought us together on the whole subject, and although extremely difficult in some areas, it helped us to talk about things we had never verbalized. We were better able to understand where we were each coming from. We talked through, honestly, where some of our deepest feelings had been misunderstood. It helped us to be more vulnerable, and open about our relationship and our habits. My husband was unaware of how he was making me feel pressure and stress, and he worked hard to show me that wasn’t his intention, but that he loved me. He wanted to be close, but I was shutting him out."
- “Lilly”,44
"I have started to feel less pressure and stress around sex. I turn my focus solely to how I can enjoy sex more. I am not faking any more, during sex I really try to enjoy it.
For the first time in our life we have started to talk about sex, what we like and what we do not like. The frequency of the sex is not improved yet but for sure the quality is increased. I have an orgasm most times we have sex.
Joining Re-Desire is one of the best decision I have ever made. After 45 years I have started to enjoy sex. The exercises and Leigh's advice helped a lot to ease the process and remove the stress around this subject. Leigh's approach is always very calming, re-assuring and encouraging."
- “Belinda", 65
"After 45 years I have started to enjoy sex"
"My husband was unaware of how he was making me feel pressure and stress. The exercises (...) brought us together on the whole subject"