1:1 Coach In Your Backpocket

With sex therapist & coach Leigh Norén

1:1 coach in your backpocket is Quick and actionable on-the-go sex coaching...

...Confidential, immediate help for the problem which affects 1 in 5 of us - low desire.

I already know I want this

When you don’t want sex – and you just want to understand why

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Feel free to check out my other services below in the meantime.

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Zero Sex Drive?


The Sex Fresh
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Discover how to want to want sex again (no sense of obligation required!), with this quick and easy audio training + pre-recorded Q&A session. The Sex Fresh Start reframes your relationship with sex and desire, with science-based belief shifts to want to want it again.

Online Program Re:Desire

Kick sexual pressure to the curb with this 9-month program to revitalize your sex life, specifically designed by a sex therapist to address the root causes of low desire so that you not only have more, better sex… you crave it. 

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The unspoken about reality for many people is: 

Every time your partner gives you a kiss you secretly pray it won’t lead to sex

You’re stressed about your lack of desire and would rather watch Netflix than snuggle with your partner in bed

You don’t know why you don’t want sex anymore - all you know is that you don't want to feel this way anymore. 

You certainly know what the answer isn't.

And while you don’t know what the answer to your problems is just yet…

It's not...

 years of weekly therapy 

You simply don’t have the time or energy to keep travelling to and from in-person appointments or to sneak off on your lunch break to fit in yet another tiring, awkward zoom call. You want help that integrates into your life - and in a day. Cause you're not yet ready to commit to anything longer.

Yet another self-help book

You need personalized help, not cookie-cutter advice like scheduling sex or endless new sex positions. In fact, if sex is pressuring, trying advanced positions and scheduling sex usually only makes things worse (and yes, you can look forward to more of these a-ha moments when working with me 😉).

weird sounding supplements 

A supplement might help you if you have a nutrient deficiency - but it can't reduce the pressure you’re feeling to have sex every week, or get rid of the sinking feeling you're perhaps broken, nor can it resolve issues you have in your relationship about sex. If that were true - sex therapists and coaches like myself would be out of a job.

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You KNOW you need support to get to the root causes of your low desire and to experience immediate pressure relief. 

But when you look around for options, all of the stuff out there is just… Not quite what you need. 

It would be great if you could...

Well… I have some good news for you, friend.

Dive deep into your desire difficulties for a day to actually understand what's going on

Have access to a desire expert who can give you actionable, confidential support.

Get immediate relief through just just the right amount of support from an online sex coach and therapist.

That’s exactly what you sign up for when you book 1:1 Coach in Your Backpocket with me!

"This session was extremely relevant and I have been given several things to think about, reflect on and try. Leigh was extremely knowledgeable and seemed to quickly understand the challenges I was having. I now have more of an understanding about how things in relationships work and feel like I have some clarity and things to try. Highly recommend! I felt more comfortable to share and open up in this forum than I would have face to face.

- “Kristina” 41-45

"Leigh was extremely knowledgeable and seemed to quickly understand the challenges I was having.  Highly recommend!"

How does this thing work though?

During 1:1 Coach in Your Backpocket, we’ll be in touch over Voxer (a free walkie-talkie app that allows us to exchange voice and text messages). 

It’s one day of personalized coaching that fits the way you REALLY live and learn. 

AND The best part? You don’t need to free your calendar for this. 

This is a low-pressure format of coaching via text or voice memo, that integrates into your day; between the school run, dinner time, and daily work tasks.

Together, we’ll dive deep into whatever is keeping you from wanting sex with your partner, and what first steps you can take to reduce the pressure.

You won't be left hanging after our day together! Pop a few follow-up questions in one email up to two weeks after our day - and I'll get back to you with guidance and support. This ensures that we can course correct if the mini-action plan we created isn't working for you!

The Nuts & Bolts of it All



Through a short and sweet chat-style application form, you'll tell me what's going on and what you're looking for in terms of support and goals. 


Book your day

If I think 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket sounds like a good fit -- you'll simply book your day and make your payment through my secure checkout system. 

Once you're booked in, you'll create a Voxer account - it’s free.

We’ll add each other on Voxer, and you can send me a message in advance to tell me more about what’s troubling you. This way, we can dive right in when your day starts.


 When your day comes, you’ll have access to me from 8 AM to 6 PM CET*

Don’t worry - you don’t need to free your calendar for a marathon 10-hour long chat, and you’re not expected to or supposed to be sitting by your phone waiting for replies.

You just need to make sure you have enough time between your daily activities to listen and reply to messages - as well as the mental space to process, think, and integrate our conversations. 

This allows for more spacious conversations—no rush, no pressure, no “faking it” just because you have a scheduled session. 

You'll find that getting to integrate this coaching access throughout your day gives you time to make new connections, think of questions that you didn't even realize you had, and start integrating what we cover. 

That’s part of what makes this day so effective.

*For my international clients, adjusted scheduling is offered. Fill out the short application form to choose your preferred times. 

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Follow-up email support

After our day together you will have access to email me once with follow-up questions up to two weeks later.

This means you won't be left hanging, and if any of the tips we've brainstormed haven't helped -- I will offer you guidance on what next steps to try instead. 

When you book 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket, what you’re really getting is…

Support from a sex therapist and coach, who specializes in low desire and pressure and stress surrounding sex. 

Validation from someone who has heard all it before and won't get embarrassed or be surprised.

Expert insights based on my Master of Science in Sexology, tailored to your unique situation and challenges.

Clarity on first steps to take towards reducing pressure - so you can experience that immediate relief that you’re looking for.

I’m Leigh, your trusted sex coach and therapist.

I can help you want sex again.

For 10 years (6 as a dedicated sex therapist) now, I've been helping people like you to flip the script that says no sex (or very little sex) means something is wrong with you and your relationship.

I’m a social worker, trained therapist and clinical sexologist with a Master of Science in Sexology. 

My life's work is getting you out of your head and back in your body so you can enjoy sex, confidently connect to your sexuality, and relish melted marshmallow intimacy in your relationship again. 

And in 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket, I help provide immediate relief and expert insights tailored to your unique situation.

So you can take your first step towards less pressure! 

Frequently Asked Questions

What if we’re in different timezones?

I’ll be available between 8 AM CET and 6 PM CET. This means, most time zones get at least a handful of hours of conversation during our day together.

In order to accommodate for several time zones, some of the times have been pushed back or forward. When you book your day you'll get to choose your preferred hours.

UK time: 7 AM- 5 PM 
EST: 2 AM - 12 lunch 
PST: 2 AM - 12 lunch
AEST: 3 PM- 1 AM

What if I need to reschedule?

I get it, life happens! So if you need to reschedule your original date - please reach out no sooner than 24 hours in advance. To be mindful of both my time and yours, rescheduling is only permitted once.

How much time is included in 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket?

You'll have access to me between 8 AM CET and 6 PM CET. 

Don’t worry. This doesn’t mean we’ll be communicating nonstop for 10 hours. That’s just the window during which we’ll be exchanging messages. Some times there might be a bit more of back and forth, and other times there might be a while before one of us replies.

How available do I need to be over 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket?

During our day, we’ll be exchanging messages at a slow yet steady pace throughout the day.

All you need to make sure you is that have enough time between your daily activities to listen and reply to messages - as well as the mental space to process, think, and integrate our conversations. 

What if I still have questions after our day together?

No worries - you will have ample opportunity to follow-up with me after our day. 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket gives you to email me once, up to two weeks after our day with any questions you may have, concerns about the tips you've been trying, or other queries related to our day. In response, you will receive a thorough email from me, guiding you forward, with suggestions and ideas to ensure the mini-action plan we created together works for you!

And, should you feel you want more regular support over a longer period of time, we can discuss options for that too - crediting the cost of 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket to working with me in other capacities.

What if I don't know what to ask you?

No need to worry! To get us started, I'll be asking you a question or two. And as our day progresses you'll find that our conversation will flow naturally - leaving space and time for questions to pop up for you.

How do we get started?

Follow the buttons to fill out the short and sweet application form. If your difficulties and goals match what I can offer within 1:1 Coach in your Backpocket - you'll immediately be sent to a page to book your session and pay. If I don't think it's a good fit, I will let you know right away and you'll be given a couple of other options!